I had a great conversation with one of my members of The eHomes Realty Network tonight. It started with a simple question. He asked, "How do you continue to always be upbeat and motivated?" It was a good question because sometimes I ask myself the same question. Even though my revenues are pretty high in this market, I don't make nearly the money I made when I was an Agent selling homes versus a Broker with 24 Agents. I decided to open my brokerage at the worst possible time, March of 2005, right before the market fell down. It was a little bit of a struggle, but we have made it through the toughest part of the decline and have managed to grow our business from 6 Agents to 24 Agents and to become the number one office in buyer transactions in Brevard County Florida. However, none of this was easy and it came with lots of sacrafice and determination. So when my member asked me this question, I wanted to give him an answer, but I had to think about it for a minute.
Every since I was a kid I have always been super competitive. In fact my brother just left this afternoon and as we do once per year, we have a marathon golf tournament. We battled each other all the way until the end, 11 rounds in 7 days. It was exhausting but a ball. But since I was a kid I have always had the desire to win and be the best I could be at pretty much everything I did. When I played baseball, I always wanted to be the best, and at the time, I was. When I played in a rock band I always wanted to be the best in the area, and we were. When I had obstacles like getting kicked out of college for grades after my first year, I had to figure out why. I did and went on to get a 3.6 at my next school. As in all my businesses, I always like to measure my success against the others in my field. Real Estate was no exception.
When I first got into the business I told my broker I would be number 1 in the office by my second year, and I was. I used to look at the sales board and if I didn't see my name up there with the most contracts and closed sales I would work twice as hard until I did. I guess it's just really fun to me. So to answer my members question, I just had to think back of my competitiveness and realize that I just like to win. I hate to lose! So what motivates me to succeed? Winning! Why am I always upbeat and happy? Because I like winning! I don't think that makes me a bad person does it?
So why am I telling you this? When my member asked me this question, it made me realize that I am no different than anyone in this business. The only difference is that I might work a little harder, try different things that nobody else is willing to try, and surround myself with excellent people to help me succeed. So are you winning in the Real Estate Business? Maybe you should ask yourself some questions.
1. Are you selling as many homes per year that you would like or are you not hitting your goals?
2. Are you working 40+ hours per week to accomplish your goals?
3. Do you have a business plan?
4. Do you blame the current market conditions for your lack of success?
5. Are you afraid to spend money to become successful?
6. Are you doing the same thing today that you did last year without success?
7. Where do you want to be and how are you going to get there? (you could always become a member of The eHomes Realty Network and we can help you)
I have found that if you just smile all the time and be happy good things will happen for you. A great attitude is the beginning and foundation for success. Throw in helping your community and your fellow Realors. And then work hard, honestly, with great ethics and take care of your customers and they will take care of you. It's all just waiting for you to grab. It's all right at your finger tips. All you have to do is grab it and the fun begins. Winning in Real Estate is no different than winning at anything. You just have to do it!